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Monday, December 28, 2009

Addictions not a Disease


“Experts” find Addictions not a Disease
By L. F. Low

While waiting for my annual doctor’s visit I noticed a News Week cover picture of a
hypodermic needle and a bottle of whiskey with the headline of “A Vaccine for
Addictions
”. I found the very small article accompanied by pictures of four or five
individuals who evidently were testing the vaccine based upon their one or two sentence
testimonies. The article began with “It has been known for decades that addiction is a
disease.”

Claiming or believing your addiction is a disease allows you to transfer the responsibility
of your addiction and the associated behaviors into the hands of the medical
professionals. However, medical professional treatments and directions do not heal the
addiction or the associated behaviors. Treating addictions from the outside in is trading
an addiction of illegal drugs for legal drugs; or from personally paying for your drugs, to
allowing insurance to pick up the tab. After all, giving drugs to a drug addict in order to
get them off drugs is like giving the fox free chicken dinners to keep him out of the hen
house. The free dinners never destroys his appetite for chicken.

Who am I? I am a minister of the Gospel who, for over fifteen years, has been helping
people find permanent freedom from their inner pains and compulsive addictions. Once
free of their inner pain, they go on to live lifestyles free from the temptations faced and
the battles fought as addicts. I am currently ministering with Teen Challenge of the
Midlands who have a proven 85% cure rate for those who finish their program. (The
Health, Education and Welfare federal government study provided that statistic from a
1975 study. Details of the study results are available from the author upon request.)

I do not have a PhD, but I do have proof that addictions are not sicknesses cured from the
outside in. Addictions are caused by, problems within the soul. Therefore, addictions are
cured successfully from the inside out, with no exceptions. In the past ten years, I have personally witnessed hundreds of people find permanent freedom. The ministry of Teen Challenge has a 50-year history in which they have seen literally thousands find permanent freedom. I guess that does give me a PhD of sorts, because I am now “Past having Doubts”.
When I mention being cured, I do not mean being on some other drug for a lifetime or
being strapped to others for accountability for a lifetime. I am talking about the battle
being over and the attraction is dead. This is freedom with no negative side affects and no
self-belittlement, guilt and grief from their past actions— COMPLETE FREEDOM.

Let me briefly explain sickness of the soul; Sickness of the soul is emotional pain or bad
feelings. Emotional pain comes from believing a lie about one’s self. Addictions are
never the problem but the fruit of the deeper problem—emotional pain. Throughout our
life, our brain is automatically interpreting every life experience based upon the premise
of “what does this experience makes me feel about me”. The information our brain deals
with is mostly assumption therefore, our interpretation is usually wrong, causing us to
believe lies about our self. If for some reason your life contained trauma, this can also
contribute to the lies you believe about your self. This is a very simple explanation but
adequate I believe for this article. (I will offer much more on this subject in future articles.)

How does our interpretations of past experiences affect us in the present?
As your brain works to interpret your current experience, it first compares this experience with every experience you have ever had, looking for places where you were hurt (believed a lie), that contain enough common elements of this moment to give you a warning. That warning is the emotional pain stored in your memory. As the subconscious memory of the four-year-old
child, who believed he would never be good enough to please his father, gets triggered by
the current argument taking place with your father, or your boss, or your wife (Anyone
basically disagreeing with you could trigger it.) the pain of the four year old is what the
adult will feel.
The problem with that is typically we have been running from our bad feelings, hoping to out grow them or forget them entirely. However, our feelings are driving our current responses and
most are totally unaware of it. Therefore the problem, bad feelings, cause bad responses which
include bad decisions such as rage and drug usage which adds to mans hopelessness as he
looses total control of his own actions to the humiliating grip of chemical dependency.

Not understanding where these bad feelings and their associated responses come from,
causes those hurting to blame others currently in their life or the current situations they
are dealing with, such as their job, stressed relationships, traffic, etc. However, blaming others never changes anything nor does learning new coping mechanisms or techniques. In other words, none of man’s counsel, legalized drugs, punishments or accountability techniques will ever end the battle for those suffering.

When a person suffers from enough emotional pain, he/she will do whatever is necessary
to escape it. Most of the time people turn to cigarettes to calm their nerves or to a drink or
two after work to relax which then escalates to more and more until you become hooked
(dependant) chemically but more importantly emotionally. Everyone experiences this
soul-sickness at one level or another. Everyone has their own remedies that they use to
escape the pain but most merely ignore it thinking, if they can’t feel it they have it under
control.

Many others currently believe that addictions or addictive tendencies are genetic,
inherited from our forefathers. Truth is, many alcoholics or drug addicts raise alcoholics
and drug addicted children. Not because it is somehow in their DNA, but because of two
basic issues that I have observed repeatedly:
1) the first observation is, this lifestyle is a
learned behavior. We learn best by observing our elders therefore, children of the
addicted observe how mom and dad cope with their issues and it becomes more sociably
acceptable to them –after all, mom and dad do it so what’s the problem.
2) The second observation is, the reason the parents are addicted is to cover or cope with their inner issues (emotional pain) caused by their childhood and their parent’s behavior. Not only
are they currently coping with their own pain, but now they are passing that pain on to
their children by their responses to current life issues which triggers feelings of hopelessness, worthlessness, shame and hundreds of other feelings. These feelings are the product of the misinterpretation of their life’s experiences as children and the trauma they endured growing up in a dysfunctional home, raised by addicted parents. And the gift goes on and on until someone says “Enough is enough—this has got to stop.”

When you want something you have never had before, you must do something you have
never done before. If you want to escape the cycle of addiction, you must turn to the root cause and the only ONE who can help. Here is where most people quit reading but here is where your help comes from.
God has reserved the transforming of the soul for Him and Him alone. Man has no way of helping you because man can only affect you from the outside in. Your issue is on the inside therefore, help must come from the inside out. Only God can do that. I have witnessed this truth personally in my own life and I have witnessed it professionally in hundreds of others for over 20 years now –God is the only answer. Not a religious god but a living God who desires a relationship with you.
Until next time, be blessed my friend;
L. F. Low

For further information on this subject, including testimonies of many who received help,
check out the author’s new book Genuine Christianity in a bookstore near you, on Amazon.com or from my website at www.genuinechristianity.org .
Genuine Christianity the book is published by The American Book Publishing Company

Sunday, December 27, 2009

Purpose for this Blog


Here we are at the tail end of a very fast year; where has it all gone. I know you hear that comment all the time but I really mean it; where has it all gone. This year has been a wonderfully productive year that has brought me many personal blessings. I'm not talking about riches or physical blessings, even though there have been a few of those, but the blessings I am talking about are more personal than that; spiritual blessings, emotional blessings, the joy of seeing those hurting find peace, personal quietness and confidence, knowing you are making a difference in others lives, etc.

For that reason I feel obligated to begin this blog spot. You see, I believe our lives do count for something bigger than we ourselves. I believe that there are personal reasons all humans are alive and that each human on this earth has a very specific reason for being here on this earth. Let me rephrase the first sentence of this paragraph and say because of what I have experienced in life I know I must share my experiences and the blessings I have received.

Let me explain a little about who I am and my background. I have reached my golden years and have been involved in ministry for the past 25, whoops 30 years now. Prior to ministry I was involved in the computer industry, I farmed, I sold insurance, I did a lot of things that never satisfied me. However, the Lord changed all that when I began to see the futility of my life and began seeking a life of purpose and meaning more than substance. I don't wish to go into all that now but just suffice it to say that I was working very hard and reaping no personal satisfaction from my labors and I certainly was not peaceful, quiet and confident about myself or my life overall.

If you are thinking "Here goes another religious blog spot" I assure you that I am not religious; I am a spiritual Christian however, but I am not religious. You see, to me religion is just rules, regulations, ceremonies and rituals (dogma) that man needs to sooth his guilty conscience. Religion is used by man to control man. No I am not religious and what I offer is not religion. However, what I am offering is an opportunity for you readers (all both of you) to gain from what I have learned about helping hurting people. And who doesn't know multitudes of hurting people?

On with who I am; Since 1999 I have dedicated my life to helping people who, for what ever reason, have a difficult time enjoying life because of their self-hatred and/or their hated for the world around them or they are depressed all the time or angry, fearful, confused, etc. Many of those I have helped are heavly medicated or addicted to their own medications; be that alcohol, drugs, self-mutilation, gambling, shopping, working, sex or what have you. If you haven't noticed, we live in a very hurting world. Over the past sixty five years I have also learned why that is and how our pain is passed on from generation to generation. Stick with me as I share and soon you will also understand how that happens. If we can end our pain we can keep from passing it on to the next generation.

I want to offer you what I have learned and help you apply it to your life; when it works for you then you can help those around you find inner peace that most people don't even know exists. I would hope that we can share some dialogue via this most wonderful media -- blogging.

What I am not going to offer those who will give me a few minutes a week is a bunch of religious plattitudes and poems. Plattitudes and poems are nice but I haven't noticed many of them actually changing a person where they hurt the most. I am not going to share with you phylosophies that sound good but only really change our intellect and not our heart.

I will try to keep it short and meaningful each day that I write (hopefully daily). I encourage you to comment on what I write; not so much on how it is written but the content of what I am writing. If you do not understand something I wrote please tell me so I can explain my self and potentially improve what I share with others.

I am also in hopes of encouraging some of those I have helped to offer testimonies of what life was like for them and how what I am teaching changed their life. I am not talking about a few people over the past eleven years but hundreds of people. To be honest, what I am going to teach you works everytime once you learn a few simple biblical principles. I am also going to encourage other's (pastors and non-pastors alike) who are currently helping people in their area with what I am teaching, to offer their input to this blogg spot. If they have blog spots of their own we will link to them so you have all the input you need to help your life or those around you who are struggling with life.

I will also be offering you parental suggestions of how to help your children become all that God intends for them to be which, quite frankly, is much much more than any parent can ever hope or dream for their child. Most of the time we are not helping our young children as much as we think when all we have to offer them is the advice we received from the generations before us. Or when we holler, scream and yell at them to do or not to do something and then back it all up with "because I told you so and I am the parent, that's why!"

If any of this appeals to you or if you know of people who we could be a blessing to, please pass the information on and join me as I share.You can also locate me on the web at http://www.genuinechristianity.org/ and I invite you to check me out. You can also read the comments from readers like you who have enjoyed my new book Genuine Christianity who have posted their critiques on Amazon.com and on my website under Testimonials.

Friday, December 25, 2009

Christmas Thoughts

This is the first Christmas in 44 years that I did not have my children with me. I am a blessed man; blessed with three beautiful daughters and 16 healthy children. For the past 44 years my daughters have been in our home for Christmas morning; for the past 22 years they have been raising their own families and they were all in our home for Christmas celebration. This year however, we were all blocked in by icy roads and blowing snow. This year my wife Dixie and I had the day to ourselves. Quiet, restful and rather eerie but also a blessing in disguise.

When all of our grandchildren were young and only numbered three or four my wife and I began a family tradition which has become very time consuming to say the least. For each grandchild we hide one gift and then give them clues where they may find each succeeding clue. Each clue they locate leads them closer to the coveted prize. When the number of grandchildren was smaller it was very easy and their age made it possible to stump them occasionally causing much excitement as they all tried to find the next clue.

Now we are attempting to hide 16 gifts in a three bedroom home plus five clues per gift. Each clue must lead that particular child to the next clue without uncovering one of the other children's gift or clues.That takes 96 hiding places that do not intersect. When the weather is bad we try to keep them inside so we don't cause a mess by tracking in and out. This is becoming quite a challenge. It is not uncommon for me to spend 40 hours making up the clues and hiding each of them plus the gifts.

Now days we have grandchildren that are in their 20's and don't you know it, they too wish to keep the tradition going. You ever tried to stump a 20-something with clues and hiding places. Unbelievable I know but we do it every year.

This ice and snow storm really was a gift from God so that I could get caught up. Today all day long I have been hammering out clues, thinking of hiding place and the toughest of all; making the clues rhyme.

Merry Christmas whoever reads this; I hope you are as blessed as I am and I especially hope you know the Reason for the season like I do. Jesus is His name and it seems the entire world is trying hard to forget that Name. Now days you hear "Happy Holidays" rather than Merry Christmas. Nothing wrong with happy holidays but to me it take Christ out of the holidays. Jesus is the reason for the season and I am not afraid to proclaim that. Merry Christmas everyone; Jesus was the baby in the manger, the reason for the Maggi traveling afar, the reason for the angels proclaiming this wonderful miracle so many years ago.

Hopefully with any luck I will have all 16 gifts adequately hidden plus all 80 clues that do not intersect or give away another's hiding place by this Sunday when all come home for a belated Christmas celebration. I am certianly a blessed man.

Merry Christmas everyone!